Specifically, male/female friendship in YA.
Specifically, how rarely I see it.
I mean, yeah, okay, fine, girls and guys are friends, like, ALL THE TIME in YA books. But by the end of the book they’re usually realizing their feelings for each other and whatever. Bonus points if they’ve been BFFs since they were born!
What about all the other friendships? The ones where they are…well…just friends?
I love romantic storylines as much as the next person, but I wish there were more of these platonic friendships, because it’s not like every single friendship you have with someone of the opposite sex has to end up with you two getting together, right? I feel like we need more books that reflect that.
Examples Of Platonic Male/Female Friendships In YA:
- Aria and Roar from Through the Ever Night by Veronica Rossi
- Harry and Hermione from the Harry Potter Series
- Cinder and Thorne from Scarlet by Marissa Meyer
- Ruby and Chubs from The Darkest Minds by Alexandra Bracken
…and I’m blanking on other examples.My point is, though, these relationships were just as satisfying as all of the romantic relationships that populate YA books. And I’d say in some cases – for example, Aria and Roar – I actually liked the friendship more than the romantic relationship (which is saying something, because I love Aria and Perry together).
Also, there’s that part of me that worries what sort of messages we’re sending. Just because he’s a dude and he’s nice to you means he’s looking for something? You can’t be just friends with someone? I feel like this might be part of that whole bigger thing in YA where romantic relationships > friendship.
Speaking of which…don’t even get me started on girl/girl friendships. That’s a subject for another post.
Any other examples of platonic girl/boy friendships in YA?